Find the Right Words

Over 500 sympathy messages. Filter by situation. Save your favorites. Copy when ready.

How to use this tool:

Browse — Use the filters below to find messages that fit your situation.
Save — Click the ★ on any message to add it to your shortlist.
Review — Click "Review Selections" to see your saved messages side by side.
Finish — Pick your favorite, choose a sign-off, and copy your complete message.

Messages

Review your selections below. Pick one to use, then choose a sign-off.

Keep it simple. Your signature doesn't need to match the depth of your message. A warm sign-off and your name are enough.

Close family or friends: "With love," or "Love always," + first name

Coworkers or acquaintances: "With sympathy," or "Thinking of you," + full name

On behalf of a group: "With heartfelt condolences," + "The Smith Family" or "Your friends at [Company]"

Religious contexts: "In God's love," or "With prayers," + name

Tip: If you're unsure, "With deepest sympathy" works for any relationship.

With deepest sympathy, Thinking of you, With love, In loving memory, With heartfelt condolences, Warmly, No sign-off

Your name (optional):

Select a message above to preview your complete card.